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Does one always compare you to ultimately others? Most bronze medalists are more comfortable than gold medalists, because bronze medalists compare themselves with all the current people who competed but triumphed in no medal by any means, while the gold medalists compare themselves with the platinum medal winners and torture themselves with the belief that they might well have won the platinum medal. Our perception of the population all around us is developed through our observation and understanding. We see, meet, and communicate with hundreds of folks through all phases of your lives. We learn about other folks, and through these encounters we learn about ourselves. This is actually the theory of evaluation. People come to know themselves by assessing the successes, beliefs, and attitudes of individuals around them. No matter positive or negative, upwards or downward, social and emotional evaluation dictates the decisions and beliefs of everybody in today's modern society. In this particular guide we will deconstruct the habits and perceptions that lead to the steady comparisons we make in our daily lives. We will discuss reasons for this occurrence and elaborate on it by providing information about the long-term ramifications of such habits. Here is a preview of everything we will discuss:
- Real-life situations of how people are evaluating themselves to others
- Why comparisons are always unjust
- How to get out of this looking at mentality
- Why comparisons often lead to resentment
- How to compare with yourself for improvement