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Inside the vein of Calm and The Geeks Shall Inherit the Globe comes this illuminating take a look at what it means to be uncomfortable - and the way the same traits which make us socially anxious and cause disturbing faux pas provide the seeds for extraordinary success. As humans, we all need to belong. While modern interpersonal life can make even the best folks feel gawky, for around one in five folks, navigating its obstacles is consistently overpowering - an ongoing maze lacking any exit. Often struggling to grasp interpersonal cues or get better at the abilities and grace essential for smooth interaction, we feel out of sync with those all around us. Though individuals may discover their uncomfortable disposition, they hardly ever understand why these are such as this - which makes it hard for them to know how to adjust their tendencies. Psychologist and interpersonal romantic relationship expert Ty Tashiro recognizes what it's prefer to be uncomfortable. Growing up, he could do math in his head and memorize the won run averages of every National Category starting pitcher. But he couldn't put fluids without spilling and habitually forgot to bring his glove to Little Category video games. In Awkward, he unpacks ages of research into individual brains, neuroscience, personality, and sociology to help us better understand this widely shared characteristic. He explores its dynamics vs. nurture origins, considers the way the uncomfortable view the world, and gives a pleasant counterintuitive subject matter: the same characteristics that produce people socially clumsy can be harnessed to create remarkable achievements. Interweaving the latest research with personal stories and real world examples, Awkward offers reassurance and provides valuable insights into how exactly we can embrace our personal quirks and unique skills to harness our magnificent potential - and more comfortably understand our sophisticated world.