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Finding sustained love and intimacy can be problematic for a lot of women. Some finish up agreeing to sexual relationships wishing that they could lead to longer, more fulfilling relationships, only to be let down when they don't. Here, Jill Weber explains why women feel pressured into a male model of dating that barters making love for the unrealistic wish that it will lead to mental intimacy. What it contributes to for the woman, frequently, is disappointment, despair, and impaired self-esteem. "Sextimacy", as Weber conditions it, traps women in relationships that are one-sided and lack mental intimacy. At these times, women regularly blame themselves rather than realizing they should blame their loving strategy. This audiobook, in a step-by-step progression, shows an improved way to break the cycle and cultivating better relationships. It educates women how to recognize when they are in a Sextimacy event instead of the start of a mutually fulfilling marriage that will not leave them racked with morning-after regrets. And it offers clear direction about what women can do to find warm loving partnerships that provide their needs. Using real testimonies from women of various ages and stages of life, Weber shows how patterns of habit may develop that create a vulnerability to being utilized. Starting in years as a child and proceeding through the crucial young years, she illustrates the factors that could get into this limited approach to cultivating romantic relationships, and provides clear tips how to avoid. Including some self-assessments, the audiobook offers women understanding into the patterns that rob them of the opportunities to develop and to gratify their mental needs. Anyone struggling to break the cycle of having making love without the attendant intimacy they desire will see in this sound a warm and ready approach to finding love and fulfillment.
