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Have you ever before felt you are not getting through to the individual you're talking to or not coming across the way you intend? You are not alone. That's the bad reports. But there is something we can do about it. Heidi Give Halvorson, interpersonal psychologist and best-selling writer, points out why we're often misinterpreted and how exactly we can fix that. Most of us assume that other people see us as we see ourselves and that they see us as we truly are. But neither holds true. Our everyday relationships are shaded by delicate biases that distort how others see us - and condition our perceptions of these. You can figure out how to clarify the meaning you're sending once you understand the lens that shape perception:

• Trust. Will you be friend or foe?
• Electricity. How much impact have you got over me?
• Ego. Does one make me feel insecure?

Founded on years of research in mindset and social technology, Halvorson points out how these lens affect our relationships - and how to control them. Once you understand the technology of perception, you'll speak more evidently, send the communications you want to send, and improve your personal relationships. You'll also become a fairer and more correct judge of others. Halvorson even provides an evidence-based action plan for repairing a destroyed reputation. This audiobook is not about making a good impression, although it will certainly help you do this. It's about coming across as you want. It's about the authenticity most of us strive for.